Donald Glen Southard Jr.1,2,3

M, b. December 22, 1978, d. August 6, 2005
FatherDonald Glen Southard1,3
MotherBetty Ann Walder1,3
     Donald Glen Southard Jr. was buried at Westhampton Memorial Park, 10000 Patterson Avenue, Tuckahoe, Henrico Co., Virginia.3 He was born on December 22, 1978 at Henrico Co., Virginia.2,3 He died on August 6, 2005 at Ashland, Hanover Co., Virginia, at age 26.3 He Donald "Glen" Southard Jr. was 4 1/2 years old when doctors discovered he had Duchenne muscular dystrophy, an incurable genetic disease that makes muscles deteriorate. Doctors told his mother that he would be in a wheelchair in three to five years and would be lucky to live 10 years. Mr. Southard, the Central Virginia Muscular Dystrophy Association's longtime poster child, died in his sleep early Saturday at his home in Ashland. He was 26. Burial will follow in Westhampton Memorial Park in Henrico County. "Glen was sent as a messenger from God to teach us a lesson every day. His faith is what gave him the strength he needed," said his mother, Betty Hart of Ashland. "Even though he couldn't scratch his nose, brush his teeth, turn over in bed or go to the bathroom by himself, he never complained," she said. "He always had a smile on his face. His brothers were his arms and legs. He loved them so much, and they were so good to him." Mr. Southard graduated from Patrick Henry High School and took college-level classes until muscle weakness made it too difficult to take notes. Until he grew too sick, he worked a job especially created and equipped for him by Keener Communications, an answering-service business. Mr. Southard was a natural athlete, and he played in the Ashland Little League while he was still walking. "All Glen wanted to do was play baseball," his mother said "His dream was to hit the winning home run in the World Series," said his stepfather, Walter A. Hart. Though later unable to play himself, Mr. Southard taught his brothers to play baseball. "Glen taught everybody," his mother said. "He had patience and the view. He touched everyone he met in some way." He walked until he was 13, when a go-cart accident shoved a sprocket through his foot and up his leg to his knee. Unable to use crutches, he sat in a wheelchair while his leg was in a cast. With the inactivity, his muscles atrophied, and doctors thought he wouldn't walk again. But his mother said, "When Glen went for his monthly MD checkup, he told his doctor he had a surprise for him. Glen stood and walked to his doctor, who was at the end of the hall." The doctor wept. When Mr. Southard eventually lost his walking ability, he received his first electric wheelchair when he was in the ninth grade. "He drove it around and around our driveway saying, 'I'm free! I'm free!'" his mother said. He participated in numerous fundraisers for muscular dystrophy and gave inspirational talks in the community. "Glen never let his disability get to him," his mother said. "He did more things in those 26 years than most people who live to be 74. I know that he's finally hit that home run." Survivors also include his father, Donald Southard Sr. of Ashland; a brother, Hunter Southard of Ashland; two stepbrothers, Walter "Wally" Hart of Bluefield and Kyle Hart of Ashland; his grandparents, Dorothy M. Walder of Reedville, and Donald and Norma Southard of Williamsburg; and his stepgrandparents, Louise and Harvey Ragland of Dawn. on August 9, 2005.3

Citations

  1. [S591] Richmond Times - Dispatch, From the Jacquelin Ambler Walder obituary in the May 24, 2005 edition.
  2. [S5152] Virginia Department of Health, Virginia, U.S., Birth Records, 1912-2015, Delayed Birth Records, 1721-1920.
  3. [S591] Richmond Times - Dispatch, From the Donald Glen Southard, Jr. obituary in the Aug 9, 2005 edition.

Douglas Leighton Massey1,2,3,4

M, b. June 19, 1932, d. March 13, 1970
     His Social Security Number was 404-38-2909.3 Douglas Leighton Massey was buried at Berea Cemetery, Berea, Madison Co., Kentucky.5 He married Joyce Ann Sheffield, daughter of Weaver Charles Sheffield and Wanda Rose Pipes.1,6,4 Douglas Leighton Massey was born on June 19, 1932.3 He died on March 13, 1970 at Berea, Madison Co., Kentucky, at age 37.2,4 He CLYDE - Douglas L. Massey, 33, dean of labor at Berea College, Berea, Ky., a native of Somerset, Ky., was killed Thurs day night in Berea when his car skidded on an icy road and struck a utility pole. surviving are the widow, the former Joyce Sheffield of Clyde; two daughters, Leah and Amy Massey of the home; two brothers and two sisters of Somerset. Services will be held at 2 p. m. Sunday in Union Church at Berea. on March 14, 1970.4

Family

Joyce Ann Sheffield b. April 4, 1937, d. July 27, 2018
Marriage*He married Joyce Ann Sheffield, daughter of Weaver Charles Sheffield and Wanda Rose Pipes.1,6,4 
Children
  • Leah Ann Massey1,4
  • Amy Lynne Massey6,4

Citations

  1. [S5130] Virginia Department of Health, Virginia, U.S., Marriage Records, 1936-2014.
  2. [S1324] Health Data Branch, Divisision of Epidemiology and Health Planning Commonwealth of Kentucky, Kentucky Death Index, 1911-2000.
  3. [S5223] Social Security Administration, U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007.
  4. [S1657] Asheville Citizen-Times, From the Douglas L. Massey obituary in the Mar 14, 1970 edition.
  5. [S9021] Berea Cemetery, Madison Co., KY, online www.findagrave.com.
  6. [S9020] Lakes Funeral Home, online www.lakesfuneralhome.com, From the Joyce Sheffield Kesner obituary.